Monday, March 29, 2010

March 21, 2010 Bro...You left us!

"Ya Kok" you left without saying anything that morning.
I was shocked and at that moment I realize life is just too short and no one can control it, no matter you are rich or poor.

You have been working hard to earn a living...now you have shop, a semi-d, big cars..but sad to hear that you didn't get to move in to your new house although it's ready! This is really sad!

Your final journey from your house is the most touching part, even our guy schoolmates were crying for you..I think they also realize life is just too short and most important thing is their drinking gang is getting lesser and lesser.

You are always the humorous among us. You brought laughter and joys to all of us...
This year we didn't get to meet each other during CNY because I have to attend a family dinner.

Your wife shown us your family photos which you took last November...your children are so adorable..you have a sweet family..but these photos have became your family's sweet memories..

You were planning to write your Will but you have procrastinate it..now your wife is having problem with the business funds, all were under your names...
I was scolding myself why I didn't propose to you and ask you to write a Will when we meet the last time...this is my fault..
Now, she has to face everything by herself...business, finance, kids etc...at least if I were to recommend you to write your Will, her business and finance can be solved temporary..
Sorry man!

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Good bye my dearest Brother!

2/1/2010 is suppose a NEW YEAR, a NEW START but to my dearest brother, his journey ended on this day.

My late God brother is a very outstanding car dealer. He was awarded by the car industry a very outstanding award "Golden Salesman", until his last day he is still outstanding.
He has his own company, partner with friends. His business is take cars from those authorise dealers and sell it under his own company, as that he has many friends and work very closely with many car dealers in Temerloh and Mentakab.

His final month in this beautiful world.. he sold 20 over cars, just imaging, i don't know how he handle this. Life is always very pity, he has chest pain before the new year, busy month, because many sales, people changing cars, order new cars, very busy month...he has ignored his chest pain.
Many friends saw him and ask him to go for a medical check, but because he is busy with "good business" he procrastinate this until 1/1/2010, he can't sleep, he feels very uncomfortable, head was very pain.
On 2/1/2010 morning, his decided to see doctor so his wife sends him to hospital, that time he was weak and can't walk far, he was on wheelchair when he reach hospital, so serious until he admitted to hospital.
Sad to say that there were only Trainee doctors around, long weekend, long holiday, there are no Professor around. Not much treatment was done, blood taken, he is on oxygen. At that point of time, he knew he needs to be treated fast but he is not allow to be discharged and send to KL for better treatment, because no Professor to sign the discharge letter. He was laying there with not much treatment and left all of us (who loved him so much) at around 6p.m that evening.

Who to blame? Doctor? The System? The Hospital Management?
We cry...and cry...and cry... but the fact is he will never come back to us..with his homour..his laughter....
Please remind your love one, long weekend, long holiday, don't simply admit to hospital and if no treatment was given in that hospital, please ask to send to better hospital in big town like KL / Kuantan.

Hope my brother "rest in peace".
We will take care your son and your wife.

Loved
Sister